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Daydree Horner

The color of denim hung in the air like laundry that wouldn’t dry. The clouds were heavy with their blessings, but I didn’t care. I wanted a clear sky for our wedding.

It is said that rain is a blessing for the commitment of marriage. But it’s just rain. Commitment takes more than a blessing.


When couples first meet and intend to marry, generally they use the emotion of love to gauge whether or not they can commit to a lifetime of wedded bliss. However, love is not enough.


Two individuals come together in union based upon their feelings, commonalities, the ability to have fun together, you name it. These same two individuals come from different backgrounds, different woundings, and deal with conflict in separate ways. We can’t expect this to be an easy ride. So why do people get married? What’s the point? People will continue to get married because they will continue to believe in love and fall in love. This is all good. However, marriage, like life is designed to make us grow and transform. But somehow that part is often forgotten and replaced with expectations of perpetual joy.

"What the caterpillar calls the end of the world the master calls a butterfly."

- Richard Bach


The concept of transformation is the most important part of marriage. After its blissful beginning, reality sets in and challenges can arise. Over time, you may realize that your partner handles conflict and/or life different from you. It really doesn’t matter what issues appear however, it’s about your reaction to them and how you deal with adversity as a team.


The sun finally appeared the day of my wedding and we continue to have a good marriage for over a decade. But that’s only because we’ve embraced the transformational nature of marriage, and I follow the tips that I’m about to share with you.


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Basking in the summer light lifts our energy! Are you feeling it? We’re just back from Hawaii where the vibe is blissful and relaxing. But no matter where you are, use the light energy of summer to manifest what you really want moving forward through the year.

Do you want to manifest wellness, more self-love, a better relationship, greater financial stability? This is your time to create your special mix of abundance with this summer energy. Just like a cocktail, there is a specific way to create what you want. To begin, you must believe that what you desire can actually happen. Next, make sure that you’re in a good space, no negativity to ruin this cocktail! Then, state exactly what you want, not what you don’t want. Even better, share what you’re intending with a person who you trust. This amplifies the energy. But be certain you’re crystal clear with your words. And then… enjoy!


Here’s what I mean…

When my husband and I were first dating we had a favorite spot for Friday’s date night. Unfortunately the restaurant no longer exists, but that’s not the point. They made the best lasagna in town so we there every week, like church. We had our favorite servers which were most of them, but there was one lady that rubbed us the wrong way for whatever reason. One night, as we stood on the line to be seated, I said to my husband, “I hope we don’t get that server…” and I went on about why I really hoped that server didn’t come to get us. My husband agreed with my statements. But sure enough, within seconds, that woman was walking up to us, taking us to her table.

This is precisely my point.

The universe is always listening. If you don’t want something to happen, don’t talk about it, and certainly don’t speak about it with great zeal accompanied by others. Give voice to what you want to see in your life, whether it’s at a restaurant, regarding your relationships or at work. I’m diligent about this way of manifesting now and I’ve watched it work seemingly miraculous moments for me. Remember, even though well intentioned, that friend who tells you that there are no men in LA is not helping you. Think good thoughts as well. Refrain from thinking: I hope I don’t get a ticket. And if you do think this way, just rethink what you truly want. Manifesting is an art. Therefore, you must practice to fine tune it.

It is common to state our fears over our fearless goals. So, don’t be hard on yourself if you do make the same mistake I did years ago. Keep moving forward. Think and say what you believe you can have in life. Even if it’s just really good lasagna.


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